Infidelity, Narcissists, Cheaters and Our Culture Which (Almost) Let's Them Get Away with It

Thank you Vivian - you may want to read the book "Fidelity" by the french philosopher Maurice Nedoncelle. A little heavy but deeply insightful. Congratulations on your brave article, though it is not just men that cheat nor do I think this is really an issue of patriarchy. Whatever the case, men and women in our time and age can be a lot happier and healthier if we rethink and reengineer our attitudes and behaviours around sexuality.



Fidelity, like all virtues, is intimate with spirituality. Spirituality is not about the body down here doing its thing and some abstract soul doing its own thing elsewhere. Spirituality is about mind, body, and spirit, about integration and unity, integrity and harmony. The easy way becomes hard, the hard ways becomes easy. Sex is easy. Love is hard but sweet. The human body is powerful and amazing and deserves respect. Where have modesty, trust, compassion, understanding, patience, and true love gone? Why are we not growing up with, living within, and educating our children within the framework of these values?
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost